Monday, June 13, 2011

Chinese Giving: What's Accepted?

There are diverse cultures all over the world and the Chinese have not been left behind. One of their old traditions is the exchanging of gifts and the etiquette that comes with it. There are some items that are considered popular Chinese gifts. It is important to learn the taboos and unspoken rules that you should know.

When visiting an Asian friend it is customary to present them with a gift. They may decline to receive it a couple of times but do not worry about it since it is part of their etiquette. You do not want to insist if a person really does not want it.

Some items are considered normal presents in the western world, but some things are taboo in China. For instance, it would be very inappropriate to give a clock. Sharp or pointed objects are not given as these symbolize bad luck. Presents in multiple of fours should also be avoided at all costs.

A good idea would be to come with a fruit basket, oranges and apples. When offering fruits, avoid cutting them in half. Though your idea might be noble, this implies that you want to break up or end your relationship. For a business partner, you can offer fine liqueur or an ink pen just not red ink.

The color red is associated with happiness and this is why new born babies are given red gifts. These include eggs dyed red and other presents wrapped in red. For wedding you can go for grand gestures or simply give flowers and good fortune foods. Anniversaries can warrant Chinese symbol jewelry such as rings and charm bracelets.

A good idea is to give non conventional items that do not have bad meaning attached to them. You can present handmade custom gifts as these show that you put a lot of thought to it. These few tips should give you an idea on Chinese gifts and etiquette.

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